Year B
1 Samuel 3:3-10, 19;
Psalm 40; 1 Corinthians 6:13-15, 17-20; John 1:35-42
The body is not for
immorality, but for the Lord.
1 Corinthians 6:13
In today’s Gospel we see our Lord calling some of His first
disciples. They inquire, “Where are you
staying?” And He invites them, “Come,
and you will see.” To follow Jesus is to
embark on pilgrimage. This world is not
our home and its values are not always ours.
Nowhere is this more evident than in the realm of morality, specifically
sexual morality. We are called to
chastity; complete chastity if we are single and marital chastity if
married. But we live in a world that
believes that liberty means license and so constantly confronts us with notions
that are opposed to what we have been taught.
St. Paul takes up this theme in today’s second reading. “The body is not for immorality, but for the
Lord.” That serves as the theme for
everything else he says here. Our bodies
are members of Christ and temples of the Holy Spirit. Therefore they are to be treated as
holy.
Let’s talk about the body for a moment. The body is a part of who we are. We are not embodied spirits. We are composites of body and spirit. Our body tells us as much about ourselves as
our intuition. When we die our spirit
separates from our bodies. However, this
is not the end, contrary to popular belief.
In the end, our Lord will return in power and glory. Then the dead will be raised and spirit and
body will reunite and we will ever after remain body and spirit.
Our body provides the visible expression of our
spirits. What we will in the spirit is
carried out by the body. In addition,
our bodies, as well as our spirits, are intended to be holy; set apart for the
Lord and His purposes.
We do not have a right over our own body. That also is a lie. We are intended to glorify God in the body. It is the Lord who has the right over our
body. So if a child is growing within
our body it is not our right to kill it.
We do not have a right to eat and drink as we please. We do not have a right to be lazy and not
exercise. We do not have a right to
misuse the sexual faculty given us. All
of these things are to be governed by God and directed by Him. When they are, they tend to His glory and the
service of others. They also tend to our
best as well as our peace and joy.
These are not things we often hear. We need to have an ear attuned to the still,
small voice of the Lord like Samuel in our first reading. And like him, when we hear that voice we are
to reply, “Speak, for your servant is listening,” and in the words of the
Psalmist, “To do your will, O my God, is my delight, and your law is within my
heart!”
So, what is the will of the Lord as pertains to this issue
of keeping our body holy and avoiding sexual immorality? Simply put, sex is for marriage between one
man and one woman for a lifetime.
Anything outside of that is gravely sinful. Fornication, adultery, polygamy, and
homosexual relations are all outside of the bounds God has given. Furthermore, sex between husband and wife has
as a primary end procreation. God
desires holy offspring [Malachi 2:15].
Therefore the use of contraception is also gravely sinful.
It will be obvious to everyone at this point that this runs
counter to everything we are told from the world around us about these
issues. But that is what it means to be
a disciple of Jesus. We will find Jesus
abiding in this place of holiness. If we
want to be with Him, we will live there too.
Certainly, this is not easy.
How is it to be done?
First, stay close to God in prayer and in the
scripture. If it isn’t already part of
your daily routine, make some time each day for this. Scripture will remind you of what God has
said and prayer will hide it in your heart so you will not sin [Psalm 119:11].
Second, stay close to the Church. Read a paragraph of the Catechism each
day. Attend Mass as often as possible,
but especially on weekends and Holy Days.
Receive the sacraments. They are
a primary means of grace. In addition,
surround yourself with likeminded individuals who will reinforce these values
of the kingdom.
Finally, do not be afraid.
We have the power of truth on our side.
I have never heard of anyone wishing on their deathbed that they had
been more immoral. On the day that you
and I stand before the Lord we will be overjoyed that we held to the Lord’s
command and we are invited to receive our reward.
But what if you’ve already fallen? What if you haven’t lived as the Lord
commands? What if you’re not doing it
now? It’s never too late; not as long as
you draw breath. The Lord is always
waiting and watching to see how He can show His mercy and restore us to His
grace. “Flee fornication” is the older
rendering of verse 18’s “avoid immorality”.
I like that better. It conveys
immediate, quick, radical, and decisive action.
Do what you must to extract yourself from immoral relationships and fly
to God for His mercy and grace. He is
waiting. Don’t be afraid!
“Here am I Lord; I come to do your will.” So we all sang together in the Psalm
response. Then let it be so here. God will grant all the strength you
need. You will find true freedom, peace,
and joy.
1 comment:
This is great. Summarizes our whole Catholic faith in a nutshell. It ain't a "fire n brimstone" speech on sexual prudishness. It is the fact of what Jesus asks of us. As St Paul says, the race is well run. The goal is joining Jesus in heaven for ETERNATY. A few hours of sexual promiscuity's pleasures are nothing to risk. Stay the course and follow Jesus's teaching. Amen!
Jim K
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